BOYS, STOP BEING SO PATHETIC

I ALMOST titled this "Men, stop being so pathetic", but that would be an insult to the real men I know.

For some males, they think staring at women is their birth right; you stare, ogle and watch women like you would gobble us up! Why? How about women staring at you back with a scowl or better yet, flash a mirror at the body part that had become your stereoscopic vision obsession. You will be able to see how nasty you look when you stare at a woman's breasts or rape her by just staring.

You may say that women dress and doll up to be noticed by men. Yes, not only women, all of us dress to impress. Noticing is very different than staring - you can look at a woman, make eye contact and smile at her; not stare at her boobs. Staring makes a woman extremely uncomfortable and turns her off completely.

I never understood the ape-like mentality to whistle at a woman walking by, yelling lewd things and letting out cat calls. If you think doing like that would impress her, you would not be more wrong - you will only repel her like anything. A woman is not a dog to come behind you when you whistle at her. Personally, I have suffered from this kind of male pretentious behavior and it was distasteful to say the least.

And then, the way you behave at women in Facebook; tech used to forward perversion to say the least! 

Women who respond positively to a man posting to her "I want to f*ck your anus" are few and far between. My immediate thoughts of a person who posts this kind of stuff is that he is insecure, has a VERY small penis, is a rapist, is mentally ill and or is borderline retarded. If you are none of these things, why would you be so dedicated with leaving this as your impression on someone? Has it ever occurred to you that respect and success comes from what YOU put out there of yourself?

And, please stop posting garbage to some "hot babes" page. It literally makes you look desperate and uncouth. I am sure you will be the first to argue that you are NOT a loser, so why not start acting like it? I can't imagine writing on Brad Pitt's page "I want to sleep with you so bad." or "I can imagine you kissing me deeply." (I am using euphemism here) Why do you do what you do and lose your decency and self respect? You can compliment a woman without looking like a freak. Simply say, "You look absolutely amazing in that bikini. Truly, the mold was broken when you came into the world." or how about... "Your face is absolutely exquisite, divine even. It is the kind of face that can launch wars and spin men into madness." The latter lines work; if you don't have poetic prowess, just say, "You are very pretty." or "You look stunning in this dress." That will make any woman smile and appreciate you; confident, real women will. Lines like "Hey baby, you look hot" or "I would bang you." will only work on women who don't have enough self esteem, are underage and clueless as to what a sh*t head you are or are victims of former sexual abuse.

Act the part. Be a damn man. Anyone can be a pig, that's easy. To truly grow and branch out is to do that which is more difficult in our lives. It's the recipe for success in almost anything. Be civil for goodness sake.

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