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A 21 year old guy committed suicide because his girlfriend ditched him earlier this week and this tragedy has gone viral on Facebook.
The girl apparently ended their relationship because the guy did not have a stable career and her family objected to the relationship.
The friends of the deceased have launched a witch hunt for the girl, whom they claim 'killed their friend' and are operating Facebook pages to track the girl down.
Isn't it a tad too late and lame? What were his friends doing when he was lovelorn and suicidal? Most probably their only help is indulge in booze at the expense of their friend's love failure like the treat they would have asked when love worked out for him. Now, they have transformed into white knights, seeking for justice expect for the fact that it is rather injustice.
Now, the passing of the buck to the girl for his death. It is all too easy to blame the girl rather than the guy's shortcomings and unproductive ways right? Sensibility should supersede emotion in this scenario. The girl left him because of his irresponsible trait. If he truly wanted the girl in his life for good, he should have got into a job and stick to it, acquire the skills needed to come up in life, not send threatening pictures of himself doing mock suicidal stunts to the girl and blackmail her if she doesn't accept him, he would kill himself, keeping his word. What about his parents who raised him for 21 years? What about his dad whose money he used to get his girlfriend gifts? Their love and sacrifices were given to oblivion. Is this for what his parents gave him life? To die such a wretched death way too early?
Love doesn't pay the bills buddy and girls need security besides love - financial security. This is not to say that girls are materialistic or gold diggers. Being materialistic and practical are two very different things - the girl certainly was disillusioned by the guys apathy in the relationship because of the non productivity of the guy. If she marries him, how would he take care of her and later, her children - this is not dependence but cooperation; both parties contributing to make the marriage work. The girl surely had advised him and did deep contemplation before leaving him. How can she be blamed for his lack of effort and cowardice?
Okay, wait, it takes lots of visceral to kill yourself - the guy indeed has guts but, if he showed that guts at living this one life as he knows it, making something commendable out of him, he would be alive today and get the girl as well.
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| A life squandered and gone too soon... |
If suicide is the only solution for problems, no one on this planet will be alive. Heck, look at people with disabilities - they are making the most of life so why can't we? Stop whining and start living.
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