WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RELATIONSHIP

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel. 

May be God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meet the right 1 so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift, love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romans in a relationship, and find out you still care for that person. 


A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means alot to u, only to find out in the end that it was never met to be, but you just have to let go. When the door of happiness closes, another opens. 

But often times we look so long at the closed door but we don't see the one which has been opened for us. The best kind of friend is the kind you can just be with, never say a word, and then walk away, feeling it 
was the best conversation you ever had. It is true that we don't know what we have till it's gone, but it's also true that we don't know what we have been missing till it arrives. 

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart. But if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours. There are things you love to hear but u will never hear them from the person you will like to hear them from. But don't be so daft as not to hear it from the 1 who says it from their heart. 


Never say goodbye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don't love the person anymore if you can't let go. Love comes to those who still hope, though they had been disappointed, to those who still believe, although they had been betrayed: to those who still need to love though they had been hurt before and to those who have the courage and faith to build trust again. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a while to love someone. But 
it takes a lifetime to forget someone. 

Don't go for looks they can deceive, don't go for wealth, even that fades away. 

Go for someone who makes you smile, cause it takes only a smile to make a dark day bright. Hope you find that someone who will make you smile.

TAXES AND INFLATION AS TOOLS OF FINANCIAL SYSTEM ENSLAVEMENT

HOW YOU LIKE 99.99% TAXES on the money?

Whether you save money or spend money, you're screwed both ways....

TAXES and INFLATION are unbelievable powerful tools of financial system ENSLAVEMENT of people. Taxes take ALL THE MONEY.... Federal tax is 25%, state taxes is 9%. 


Here is how.... Example: I made $100 from my company. I paid federal & state taxes and spent what is left. I spent what was left buying groceries from GROCER. GROCER collect my money and pay taxes again on the same money. Whatever is left, GROCER used it to pay the MECHANIC to fix his car. MECHANIC pay taxes and spend what is left buying groceries from GROCER....GROCER use what was left to pay RESTAURANT dinner. RESTAURANT collect the money, pay taxes, and later buy groceries from GROCER for his restaurant. GROCER has to pay taxes again on THE SAME MONEY....the process repeat itself over and over. Here is how it looks like.

Federal tax is 25%, state taxes is 9%. 
Myself 100 - 25 - 9 =66 
GROCER 66 - 16.5 - 5.94=43.56 (66x .25=16.5 because 25% of 66=16.5) 
MECHANIC 43.56 -10.89 - 4.10 =28.57
GROCER 28.57 - 7.14 - 2.57 = 18.86
RESTARANT 18.86 - 4.71 - 1.69 = 12. 46
GROCER 12.46 -3.11- 1.12= 8.23
taxes on and on until it reaches a penny....becuase a penny is the smallest amount that cannot be tax further....

The same $100 is taxes 99.99% 


MIND BLOWING is not even the words....So they collected all these money from taxes, but where did all the money goes?  How come the country debt is in the TRILLIONS?  

WHERE DID THE MONEY GOES?  how about they STOLE THE MONEY and used it to build up the military/police force because they control the military.  The stronger the military the more powerful they become, the more wars they can create, the more damage can be done, the more scare we become, the more we would depend on the government, the more enslaved we are!!!!

WITHOUT THE OPPOSITE, HOW CAN THERE BE EVOLUTION?

THE PRESENCE OF OPPOSITE & your EVOLUTION....Yin & Yang, Light & Darkness, Love & Fear, War & Peace, etc....Without the opposite, you probably would not have fully understand and appreciate the other. 


Without WAR, how can you understand/appreciate PEACE? 
Without COLDNESS, how can you understand/appreciate WARMTH?
Without SEPARATION, how can you understand/appreciate UNITY?
Without LONELINESS, how can you understand/appreciate COMPANIONSHIP?

***If not because of the lower dimensions/lower vibrations, you probably would not have fully understand and appreciate higher dimensions/higher vibrations.***

If there is no reference point, how can there be knowledge???

 WITHOUT the OPPOSITE, how can there be EVOLUTION???   


Therefore, ALL served as lessons on the journey of evolution ultimately back Home to Source (Eternal Love which resulted in Creation of__). 

Hating/Fearing the opposite is of little use and create more lower vibration/frequency/separation. Understand that the opposite present you with the opportunity to REALLY APPRECIATE the other, the one that you have distanced yourself from and wanted so much to be back! Thank you OPPOSITE.... Your lessons are priceless....We are grateful for your service!  
It is time to evolve....

AND FINALLY GOD CREATED MAN

GOD created the DONKEY and told him, 'You will work tireless from sunrise up to sunset, carrying heavy bags on your back, you will eat grass. You will not have intelligence and you will live 50 years. You will be a DONKEY!'

The DONKEY answered, 'I will be a DONKEY, but living 50 years is too much, give me only 20 years!' and GOD gave him 20 years.


GOD created DOG and told him ' You will look after man's house, you will be his best friend, you will eat whatever they give you and you will live 25years, You will be a DOG!'

The DOG answered 'GOD, living 25 years is too much, give only 10 years!' and GOD gave him 10 years.

GOD created the MONKEY and told him, 'you will jump from branch to branch you will do silly things, you will be amusing and you will live 20 years, you will be a MONKEY!'

The MONKEY answered ' GOD, living 20 years is too much , give me only 10 years!' and GOD gave him 10 years.

Finally, GOD created MAN and told him, 'you will be a MAN the only rational being on this earth and you will use your intelligence to control other animals, you will dominate the world and you will live for 20 years.

The MAN answered, GOD I will be a man but living 20 years is not enough, why don't you give me the 30 years that the DONKEY refused, the 15 years that the DOG didn't want and the 10 years that the MONKEY refused ?'
That was exactly what GOD did, and since then: MAN lives 20 years like a MAN, then he gets married and spends 30 years like a DONKEY, working and carrying the load on his back. Then, when his children leave he spends 15 years like DOG looking after the house and eating whatever is given to him. Then he gets old, retires and spends 10 years like a MONKEY, jumping from house to house or from children to children, doing silly things to amuse his grandchildren !

THE COMPUTER HUBBY

Husband (Returning late from work ) :
  
"Good Evening Dear, I'm now logged in."


Wife : Have you brought the grocery ?

Husband : Bad command or filename.



Wife : What about my new TV?

Husband : Variable not found ...


Wife : At least, give me your Credit Card, I want to do some shopping.

Husband : Sharing Violation. Access denied ...


Wife : Do you love me or do you only love computers or are you just being funny ?

Husband : Too many parameters ...


Wife : It was a great mistake that I married an idiot like you.

Husband : Data type mismatch.


Wife : You are a useless nut.

Husband : By Default.


Wife : What about your Salary ?

Husband : File in use ... Try after some time.


Wife : Who was in the car this morning ?

Husband : System is unstable. Press CTRL + ALT + DEL to Reboot.





Wife : Are you going to drink some wine?

Husband : File system is full.


Wife : What is my value in the family ?

Husband : Unknown Virus.

A LESSON IN LOGIC ..!!

Ashok, a fresh computer graduate from a world class University, goes for an interview in a software company.

The interviewer is Sunder, a grubby old man. And the first question he asks Ashok is, 'Are you good at logic?'

'Of course,' replies Ashok.

'Let me test you,' replies Sunder. 'Two men come down a chimney. One comes with a clean face and the other comes out with a dirty face. Which one would wash his face?'

Ashok stares at Sunder. 'Is that a test in Logic?' Sunder nods.

'The one with the dirty face washes his face', Ashok answers wearily.


'Wrong. The one with the clean face washes his face. Examine the simple logic. The one with the dirty face looks at the one with the clean face and thinks his face is clean. The one with the clean face looks at the one with the dirty face and thinks his face is dirty. So, the one with the clean face washes his face.'

'Hmm. I never thought of that," says Ashok. 'Give me another test.'

Sunder holds up two fingers, 'Two men come down a chimney. One comes out with a clean face and the other comes out with a dirty face. Which one washes his face?'

'We have already established that. The one with the clean face washes his face.'

'Wrong. Each one washes one's face. Examine the simple logic. The one with the dirty face looks at the one with the clean face and thinks his face is clean. The one with the clean face looks at the one with the dirty face and thinks his face is dirty. So, the one with the clean face washes his face. When the one with the dirty face sees the one with the clean face washing his face, he also washes his face. So each one washes one's face.'

'I didn't think of that!' says Ashok. 'It's shocking to me that I could make an error in logic. Test me again!'

Sunder holds up two fingers, 'Two men come down a chimney. One comes out with a clean face and the other comes out with a dirty face. Which one washes his face?'

'Each one washes his face.'

'Wrong. Neither one washes his face. Examine the simple logic. The one with the dirty face looks at the one with the clean face and thinks his face is clean. The one with the clean face looks at the one with the dirty face and thinks his face is dirty. But when the one with clean face sees that the one with the dirty face doesn't wash his face, he also doesn't wash his face. So neither one washes his face.'


Ashok is desperate. 'I am qualified for this job. Please give me one more test!'

He groans when Sunder lifts his two fingers, 'Two men come down a chimney. One comes out with a clean face and the other comes out with a dirty face. Which one washes his face?'

'Neither one washes his face', Ashok replies, 'I have learnt this logic.'

'Wrong, again. Do you now see, Ashok, why programming knowledge is insufficient for this job? Tell me, how is it possible for two men to come down the same chimney, and for one to come out with a clean face and the other with a dirty face?

Don't you see the flaw in the premise?'............

IT'S TIME TO SAY NO TO CASTE SYSTEM

In Vedic culture, everyone is considered to be born as Shudra. Then based on his or her education, one becomes a Brahmin, Kshatriya or Vaishya. This completion of education is considered to be a second birth. Hence these three Varnas are called “Dwija” or twice-born. But those who remain uneducated for whatever reasons are not discarded from society. They continue as Shudra and perform support-activities for the society.


A son of Brahmin, if he fails to complete his education, becomes a Shudra. Similarly, son of a Shudra or even a Dasyu, if he completes his education can become a Brahmin, Kshatriya or Vaishya. This is pure meritocracy. The way degrees are accorded today, Yajnopaveet was provided in Vedic system. Further, non-compliance with the code of conduct for each Varna could result in taking away of the Yajnopaveet.

Then, what is "Jaati" ?. Jaati means a classification based on source of origin. Various animals like elephant, lion, rabbits etc form different ‘Jaati’. In same manner, entire humanity forms one ‘Jaati’. A particular Jaati will have similar physical characteristics, cannot change from one Jaati to another and cannot cross-breed. Thus Jaati is creation of Ishwar or God.

Brahmin, Kshatriya, Vaishya and Shudra are no way different Jaati because there is no difference in source of birth or even physical characteristics to differentiate between them.

Later, word ‘Jaati’ started being used to imply any kind of classification. Thus in common usage, we call even different communities as different ‘Jaati’. However that is merely convenience of usage. In reality, all humans form one single Jaati.

Let us have look about "Varna". The actual word used for Brahmin, Kshatriya, Vaishya and Shudra is ‘Varna’ and not Jaati. The word ‘Varna’ is used not only for these four, but also for Dasyu and Arya. ‘Varna’ means one that is adopted by choice. Thus, while Jaati is provided by God, ‘Varna’ is our own choice.

Many examples exist of change of Varnas in Vedic history:
  • Aitareya Rishi was son of a Daasa or criminal but became a Brahmin of highest order and wrote Aitareya Brahman and Aitareyopanishad. Aitareya Brahman is considered critical to understand Rigveda.
  • Ailush Rishi was son of a Daasi, gambler and of low character. However he researched on Rigveda and made several discoveries. Not only was he invited by Rishis but also made an Acharya. (Aitareya Brahman 2.19)
  • Satyakaam Jaabaal was son of a prostitute but became a Brahmin.
  • Prishadh was son of King Daksha but became a Shudra. Further he did Tapasya to achieve salvation after repenting.
  • (Vishnu Puran 4.1.14)
  • Had Tapasya been banned for Shudra as per the fake story from Uttar Ramayan, how could Prishadh do so?
  • Nabhag, son of King Nedishtha became Vaishya. Many of his sons again became Kshatriya. (Vishnu Puran 4.1.13)
  • Dhrist was son of Nabhag (Vaishya) but became Brahmin and his son became Kshatriya (VP 4.2.2)
  • Further in his generation, some became Brahmin again (VP 9.2.23)


  • As per Bhagvat, Agniveshya became Brahmin though born to a king.
  • Rathotar born in Kshatriya family became a Brahmin as per Vishnu Puran and Bhagvat.
  • Haarit became Brahmin though born to Kshatriya (VP 4.3.5)
  • Shaunak became Brahmin though born in Kshatriya family. (VP 4.8.1). In fact, as per Vayu Puran, Vishnu Puran and
  • Harivansh Puran, sons of Shaunak Rishi belonged to all four Varnas.
  • Similar examples exist of Gritsamad, Veethavya and Vritsamati.
  • Matanga was son of Chandal but became a Brahmin.
  • Raavan was born from Pulatsya Rishi but became a Rakshas.
  • Pravriddha was son of Raghu King but became a Rakshas.
  • Trishanku was a king but became a Chandal
  • Sons of Vishwamitra became Shudra. Vishwamitra himself was a Kshatriya who later became a Brahmin.
  • Vidur was son of a servant but became a Brahmin and minister of Hastinapur empire.

WHY I AM A FREETHINKER

Who says freethinkers are bad people? Programmed believers. Conversely, freethinkers believe it is bad to allow anyone to program what they think. The problem is that people who are programmed don't know it or will not recognize it when anyone points this out. In fact, it us usually futile to convince a person they are controlled either by god, their spouse, friend, congregation or whomever.


It would be easy to say that someone who is programmed is deficient in some way, but that would make as much sense as saying someone who has an illness is deficient. Physicians do not make such accusations, instead they focus on treating the problem using the symptoms simply as evidence. That is to say, good doctors have this mindset, but being human some doctors are judgmental and preachy. I avoid them like the plague because I cannot trust they are rational thinkers, my key to practicing medicine. Dr House is my hero in this regard. 

The ancient fallacy that only belief in a deity can lead to morality stems from a woeful misunderstanding of human cognition and wishful thinking. In the end every person has to decide right from wrong. It would be great to have an angel on your shoulder to lead your every action, but no one has ever produced such a being for rigorous examination. No book can ever do more than serve as a guide, which leads me to conclude that thinking for myself is really the only course to follow.


My mother used to tell me to wish in one hand and shit in the other and see which one gets full the fastest. (Apologies for the raw language, but the quote would just not be the same if toned down.)

Do you see why I am a freethinker?

THE FOCUS IS ON PHYSICAL IMMORTALITY

Once the following have been achieved, the civilization mainly focus on extending life = IMMORTALITY.

1.  Enough food and water.
2.  Eliminate aging and sickness/diseases.
3.  Free energy technology.
 

Even on un-ascended civilizations on many other planets, once they produce enough food/water to feed everyone, produce free energy technology, and eliminate aging & sickness/diseases... they mainly focus on immortality, focusing on rising consciousness & expanding awareness... All the advancing in technology, science, healing, and etc all have one ultimate focus; that focus is to extend the life of the physical body. (If one evolves enough in consciousness to where one doesn't need a physical body, that's a completely different story.)


If a civilization  has free energy, then there would not be pollution. If it produces enough food/water, no one would worry about being starve to death.  If it has eliminated sickness/disease by enhancing the body or by completely eliminated all harmful sick-causing organism, there would be no aging/sickness/diseases.  Everyone would be focusing on advancing technology, science, consciousness, spirituality and exploration of the Cosmos.... because everyone would have a lot of free time to do what they love most. 
If Earth was not under domination, not under control, and the technology was not suppressed by the en-slavers.... Earth would be very advanced by now.

If you have all the food/water you ever need, have free energy technology to travel, and don't age or get sick....What would you be doing most of the time??!  Think about it...

PARENTING IS AN ART FORM, TRYANNICAL PARENTS ARE FAILING AT THE ART

Parents threaten their children all the time for all sorts of reasons and the threats often contain explicit  sanctions. Eat your peas or no ice cream for desert. Do your homework or no TV for you! The reason parents resort to threats to gain compliance is not difficult to understand. The tactic often works. 


The larger question we should ask is: can we not think of a wiser way? Parents, and institutions as well, that subject children to threats are teaching them a pattern to follow in their own lives. The lesson children can take away is that retribution is meted out for transgression, and the strong get to punish the weak.  But, this logic is exactly the way tyrants think. Our legal system has many safeguards in place to try and insure that justice is fair. However the safeguards often fail, especially where religious abuse of children is a factor. 

Yet as time goes by we become more enlightened and there are thoughtful informed people who seriously question the paradigm of crime and punishment. Rehabilitating criminals is a long and costly endeavor so regrettably it seems we have abandoned rehab in favor of simply locking the convicted away.

The alternative to tyrannical methods is simply to insist children reason about their decisions. Instead of memorizing rules, teach children to reason about which actions to take in life. Sanctions meted out by a supernatural force would not seem to be a healthy scheme to carry with you in life. The idea a supernatural force is always watching and judging would surely lead to paranoia in many people. A fact we can observe if we are careful. 

There is a better way.

"Some who support [more] coercive strategies assume that children will run wild if they are not controlled. However, the children for whom this is true typically turn out to be those accustomed to being controlled— those who are not trusted, given explanations, encouraged to think for themselves, helped to develop and internalize good values, and so on. Control breeds the need for more control, which is used to justify the use of control.”
― Alfie Kohn, Punished by Rewards: The Trouble with Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A'S, Praise and Other Bribes


“In short, with each of the thousand-and-one problems that present themselves in family life, our choice is between controlling and teaching, between creating an atmosphere of distrust and one of trust, between setting an example of power and helping children to learn responsibility, between quick-fix parenting and the kind that's focused on long-term goals.”
― Alfie Kohn, Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason

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